Program aids teens in foster care
Harrison, Lauren, Long Island Newsday, 12/8/12
Teenagers sat at tables in a Middle Island classroom
equipped with a kitchen, watching as a professional chef demonstrated how to
chop a cucumber.
"See your fingers? We don't want to lose them,"
said Richard Freilich, Suffolk County Community College's culinary program
director, tucking his fingertips away from the blade. "Use your fingers to
control the vegetable."
Food safety and healthy cooking were among several skills 30
teens in New York's foster care system learned Saturday at the launch of a
special respite program.
Held at the 15-acre Saddle Rock Ranch, the program aims to
prepare teens transitioning out of foster care, with workshops on topics
ranging from managing money and enrolling in college to grooming horses.
"The goal is that it will make a difference in some of
their lives. They'll be able to start feeling confident," said Lauri
Sherman Graff, director of Heart Gallery NYC, which created the program with
Family Residences and Essential Enterprises Inc., the ranch operator.
About 100 teens will take part in the monthly program, with
some courses taught by Suffolk County Community College instructors, through a
$25,000 grant by HSBC, the global banking and financial services firm.
Foster children face "tremendous challenges" in
entering the real world, Sherman Graff said.
"A significant percentage of children who age out of
foster care end up incarcerated or homeless; the girls end up pregnant,"
she said. "So we're hoping to just interject before that happens and give
them some hope."
Hope is central to both nonprofits. Heart Gallery NYC has
helped find permanent homes for many foster children, featuring their
photographs in public exhibits since 2007, Sherman Graff said. Family
Residences offers a variety of programs, especially centered around equestrian
therapy, for Long Island residents with special needs, said Christopher Long,
the group's chief of operations.
"One of the important components . . . is how the
handlers develop relationships with the horse," he said.
Jasmine, in foster care for 14 of her 16 years, called it
"a little bit" overwhelming to learn how to budget the money she
makes in a work-study program at a nursing home. "It's going to get harder
because when I get more jobs, I gotta learn how to spend my money and how to
save it," she said.
For Amanda, 14, who has been in foster care since she was 6,
the program takes her "one step closer" to becoming a young adult.
Amanda said she hopes to become a therapist, adding,
"Because I've been through so much during my past . . . it would be easier
to understand a kid, because I've been through it."